Properly handling a high volume of women is not a joke. On any one of my vacations I am communicating with a minimum of 100-200 women and having 3-4 quality meetings each day while on vacation. To accomplish this I need to approach it like a job and build a system to handling the outreach, screening, intake, scheduling, follow up and cleanup. For countries outside the United States here is my breakdown on how to get started on making the most out of your vacation hunting for women. You can begin these steps 2-3 days before reaching your vacation destination or once you feel settled. Keep in mine there will be a day or two delay from when you begin the steps and when you will start seeing results.
Outreach
Step One: Read the post concerning setting up a fake identity, this is for your protection.
Step Two: Set up and build NEW accounts for the following applications in the order listed. Local phone number, Tinder Platinum, WhatsApp, Facebook, Facebook Messenger, Telegram, and Instagram.
Step Three: On Tinder geolocate yourself to where your vacation will be and start swiping right on every profile without reading or stopping to look at photos for a minimum of 15 minutes. Ensure your settings are properly configured to your preferences prior to beginning.
Step Four: Once you start to receive messages, build a blanket response template that you will send regardless of what message the women send to you, identifying you want to move the conversation to WhatsApp. This is done due to Tinders stringent communication guidelines that will likely cancel your account if women start to report your account.
Step Five: Once the communication has been moved to WhatsApp, or one of the other social apps, send one or two additional blanket responses that openly communicate your base desires of the interaction. If the women respond positively you can then begin to schedule video calls then meetings.
Screening
Now that you have a grasp of how to reach out to the women in a efficient and safe manner lets move on to screening out the rotten eggs. This step starts on the Step Four of the Outreach process. Most of this section can be summed up with you cultivating the mentality you are overflowing with confidence in your greatness and women should be competing for your attention and you do not have time for even the smallest of games or excuses.
Step One: Looks. This is the easiest, most frustrating and yet the most simplistic screening mechanism available. It is the easiest because you should immediately pass on every women that is not pleasing to you eye for any reason. There are millions more to pick from and you should only be settling for first second and third place winners. Start this screening process only once you started receiving messages and begin responding with your templated response. It is the most frustrating due to photoshopped images, women posting pictures of themselves from 10-20 years ago, women posting pictures of someone else, and transgenders. This frustration is usually dealt with by a five second video call with audio confirming they are how they say they are. Simply having them say your name on the call or answer a random question will filter out fake video calls and men posing as women, even better if you have them touch their nose, this interferes with most video filters and reveals their true face.
Step Two: Scams. There are SO MANY! If any of the following apply to any conversation just block the person and move on. I will have to create a new page just dedicated to scams because their are so many.
They try to:
Sell you photos and videos
Require you to send money for ride fair
Send money for any reason
Say they are “Not your typical girl” meaning they are a Transgender or LadyBoy
Say they are 18, which means not likely and they are Under Age illegal jail bait
Ask you to meet them at their desired location
Buy them anything. Gift cards, dinner, meet the family
Separated, means not divorced, means sleeping with someone else’s wife, mean jail time or bribery
Try to bribe you for any reason
Say they are going to the cops, have you arrested, use your messages as proof
Step Three: Follow directions. If the individual is unable to follow simple directions. Get confused about utilizing a different app for communication of do anything you ask them to. Block and move on. The rational is that if they cant do such a simple task then they will likely cause you a great deal of headache in the future as well. There is a base level of intellect required to avoid problems.
Step Four: Availability and Attitude. You are a person with limited time and availability to meet new people. If the person you are talking to does not understand this, then they are clearly up to no good and are no good for you. They need to make themselves available to your schedule to meet you where you are and have the can do attitude to make that happen.
Step Five: Attitude. In addition to the attitude they have on meeting you an additional screen is on the attitude they have on where to go and what to do. A women that allows you to take charge and provide the options this is good. If you provide simple and direct options as to what you want and they are eagerly awaiting to appeased your decision whatever it may be this is also good. Responses anything other than yes should be treated with block and moving on. You have no need to find a women that wants to treat you like a wallet and spend all your money at the fancies places in town ordering the fines of foods.
Step Six: Gifts and AddOns. Time is the most expensive luxury available. Any women you talk to should respect the time you make available to them as the greatest gift they need to receive to stay happy. Women that ask for gifts, money or be treated to expensive places and experiences should be met with block and moving on. There os no shortage of GoldDiggers and women that treating dating like a job to make a profitable living.
Step Seven: Ask for more then what is offered. Before, after or during a meeting the women should never ask for more than what you have already provided. They will always come up with excuses such as having kids that are going without, they have sick parents, they needing medication, food to eat, cant pay their bills and so on. These are all just words or even photos to strike sympathy you will provide them more and more and more, it will never end. If they ask for more, simple answer, block and move on. If they will not leave, call security.
Intake
So now that you have reached out to women and screened the ones that have responded. You are now ready to conduct the intake process. This step begins on the Step Five of the Outreach section once the conversation has moved to the alternative communication app and the women has responded positively to the base understanding of your intensions. The first step of Intake is additional screening. During the round of screening you should review the bio, all previous photos and messages for any indication this women will provide you a hard time or is not exactly what your looking for. Remember, you’re not doing all of this work to settle, you’re here to get the best available to you at the time. Once you have decided on moving forward with this women you can begin the conversation to meet in person and schedule a meeting.
Note:
Organization is key and the intake step is the first step that requires serious and rigorous organization. There are a number of method to organize this chaos depending on what tools are available to you but I will explain my method. Organization does not come with individual steps but notes to keep in mind on how to best apply for your situation.
Note One: Utilize Google Note, Google Sheets, Excel or any other easy to access method of keeping track of large interconnected pieces of information. Use this as your linchpin that connects all of the women’s information across all of the platforms. You should be looking to keep track of the following:
Tracking Item: All contact information such as name, username, phone number…
Tracking Item: The primary platform you are talking to what women.
Tracking Item: All platforms that you are talking to that same women.
Tracking Item: Each name or username on each platform she has so you can quickly search and find that specific women on each platform.
Tracking Item: What step of the process is the women on.
Tracking Item: What action or followup is needed.
Tracking Item: Notes specific to that women. Such as their city or country.(In case you are visiting multiple during your vacation)
Note Two: Remember to block the women from Tinder once the conversation has moved to the new communication platform. This will prevent them from reporting you on Tinder and getting your account deactivated if they do not like what you have to say about your intensions.
Note Three: Keep a photo as many platforms other than Tinder and Instagram do not have photos to remind you what they look like.
Note Four: Keep track of how much each women costs once they agree to a price as they will change prices or what they are offering.
Scheduling
Appointments are a real problem in Latin America and South East Asia as time is considered flexible and attendance optional. This flexibility means that no one is going to arrive anywhere close to being on time if they show up at all. To compensate for this issue it is best to inform people to show up an hour before you want them to arrive or schedule multiple appointments together in anticipation only one will show. Unfortunately providing reminders and constant communication with the women you have an appointment with still will not increase the odds of them attending or showing up on time. The easiest fix to this problem I have located so far is to use the local ride-hailing app like Uber(Western), Lyft(Western), Cabify(Colombia), Grab(Asia), JoyRide(Philippines), DiDi(China) and to schedule the pickups and drop offs myself. This way I know exactly when the women is going to show up and I pay for the ride for them to alleviate the financial burden of affording the ride.
Follow Up
When it comes to providing follow up on old leads that have not messaged you back I would recommend optimizing your timing. This has to take into consideration length of your vacation and day of the week. Ideally messages sent on a Friday or Saturday in the late afternoon or evening will receive the highest response rate. Providing 2 to 3 days between messages will be seen as a follow up rather than in a negative way.
Following up on in person meetings can be at any time you find appropriate. The women knows you are short on time to spend in their country and you may wish to press to see them again shortly. I have messaged women as shortly as 12 to 24 hours after our previous meeting requesting them to join me again. Since you have already met the women they understand that jet lag between the United States and South East Asia is significant, which can lead to unusual meeting times.
Clean Up
It is important to keep a clean an tidy workplace. This is why I recommend blocking and deleting profiles before it becomes necessary. Here are a few rules of thumb that can assist you:
Thumb One: Blocking women on Tinder to prevent them from reappearing on your match list.
Thumb Two: Block women that you have transitioned the communication to a separate platform.
Thumb Three: Always Block women before they have the chance to block you first, even if they only show a potential sign of problems.
Thumb Four: If you block a women make sure you block them on all platforms.
Thumb Five: Archive the conversations with blocked women to ensure you remember why you blocked them and in case they have multiple separate profiles.
Thumb Six: If you are moving countries or cities during your vacation, make sure to delete all profiles of women from the previous locations.
Thumb Seven: Make sure you delete all of your profiles once your vacation is over. Leave no connections or loose ends.