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About YOLOFOC

Why YOLOFOC Is Here

Welcome to You Only Live Once Friends Of Charles which is a space where I share the knowledge and experiences I’ve gathered over the years in the key areas that I believe have the greatest impact on happiness. My goal is to distill these insights into simple, actionable ideas, applicable to most peoples journey. I tend to lean towards higher risk, drastic, life changing actions to deliver the most simplistic and happiest lifestyle in the shortest turnaround time possible. If you would prefer personalized guided assistance or specific advice tailored to your life, you are more than welcome to reach out to me directly for a conversation.

I’m not a financial advisor, relationship counselor, or therapist. I’m just someone who has lived a little, learned a lot, and wants to help others find more happiness in their own lives. If you’re looking for professional advice, I encourage you to seek out a licensed experts. If you’re open to a fresh perspective from someone who’s figuring things out along the way, you’re in the right place. Here you’ll find honest reflections, real-life lessons, and hopefully a little inspiration to create a happier, more fulfilling life.

  • The footnotes contain the reference material that supports my views or where I learned about the information.
  • Please read the reference material to see if you come to the same conclusions I have.
  • Parentheses around dates (2025) indicate the last time the information was updated.
  • Referral links are only used for products that I use personally or strongly believe in.

Life’s Greatest Concerns

Focus Areas

Money

Money is a tool that provides the freedom to pursue your passions, make choices without limitations, create financial stability and reduce life stress so you can open doors to meaningful experiences. The key is to find simple, effective ways to manage and grow your wealth, so you can focus on what truly matters.

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Women

Expand your horizons beyond your home country to enrich your relationship experiences. Embrace the opportunity to connect with old fashion traditional women of different cultures and backgrounds. Exploring options globally can open your mind and lead to deeper, more fulfilling connections.

Mental Mindset

Shift your perspective, unlock your motivation, and create a life filled with purpose and happiness. When you change the way you see the world, you open the door to new opportunities, greater fulfillment, and the success you’ve always been capable of. The life you want is within reach.

Steps to a Better Life

Start to Finish

01

Self-Evaluation

Take a Cold Hard Look at LIFE to identify what truly matters and reimagine what’s possible. What changes would most profoundly enhance your happiness? Think outside the box on how to turn your dreams into your everyday reality.

02

Study and Learn

Explore this website with an open mind to find inspiration that speaks to you. Discover what resonates most with your life and where you can implement changes to profoundly alter the course of your happiness.

03

Reach Out and Change

Reach out to seek clarity or personalized advice on the area you are improving in yourself. Begin making changes to your mindset and everyday actions to alter the direction of your life making your vision a reality.

Have Questions?

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Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Simply reach out to me providing your vision and I will assist you in creating a personal plan to transform your dreams into reality. Life is all about happiness.

Ask Questions To Fill This Area

If and when people that find my writing interesting reach out with questions. I will place the common ones asked here. Or just add it the the website as a whole if and where applicable.

This Website is Incomplete. Why?

Yes. It is intended to be a living site that changes with time. Meaning it will grow as times change and new information is considered or revealed just like life changes when new knowledge is acquired.

Can people seek personal advice?

Yes I can provide personalized guidance. You are encouraged to read as much as possible from multiple sources to see multiple viewpoints. My viewpoint is only one of many and the one that has worked for me in my unique life situation.

How do I make more money?

Habits and mindset. The correct habits will allow you to save money. The right mindset will smoothen out the ride and make it feel natural. Having both is a perfect solution for generational wealth building.

What countries do you suggest?

Everyone has their own unique tastes and desires. Lets have a conversation and find out where in the world best fits your specific desires.

Have additional questions?

I’m here to help. Let’s talk.

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